31st October 2019

Don’t you just love a good old fashioned love song and story? Especially, if both relate to people you know and care about? While preoccupied with the final edit of my new Crime Novel, I bumped into an old friend whose first love turned out to be the love of their life. When people share…

13th June 2019

Frequently, in my line of work, I come across people whose ambitions and dreams are ruled by others. A good example is how excited someone is to achieve a dream and everything they put into making it happen. Until someone, they trust and seek advice from, point out all the negatives and how impossible it…

9th May 2019

So many times people ask me what constitutes a great relationship. My response is that no one knows exactly what makes two people right or wrong for each other. Although I do know that if we knew, the world would be a much happier place to live in. But what I have learned from my…

11th April 2019

What saddens and angers me more than anything is when I find out someone I care about is in a controlling relationship. It happens to women and men and has no bearing on whether easily influenced and controlled. Whether confident or insecure, some people are experts in manipulation. It happens gradually until the other person…

14th March 2019

I love life. Too many people plan ahead for the future not realising today is all we’ve got. Of course, some things have to be planned and organised. I plan and organise my work commitments and novels, but apart from that, I cherish the unexpected spontaneous moments that matter here and now. When we plan too…

14th February 2019

Don’t you just love to watch an old-fashioned love movie? The kind that lifts your spirit and transports you to a wonderful place filled with love and romance. I know many old and new films that deliver on all those things, but they aren’t as popular as other trendy movies nowadays. In real life, we rarely…

17th January 2019

Are you like me, thinking a lot of people look unnatural? I counsel a lot of people whose main ambition is to look younger than their age. Why? This makes them feel miserable as most treatments are painful, carry health risks and frequently don’t end with one or two ‘nips and tucks’. My clients and…

3rd January 2019

I’m a hoarder when it comes to clothes and objects that have been passed on to me. Each item reminds me of special people and times. But I NEVER rack up past events unless they bring me happiness and joy. The reason is that if I engage and dwell on something that caused me pain…